When My Father Was Hospitalized, My Husband Refused to Help - 'We Split All Costs Now
Chapter 1
Two months after our wedding, my husband Lucas suggested we split all our bills equally.
Living expenses, supporting our parents, social obligations, raising children - everything was to be split 50/50.
I accepted.
Later, he couldn't handle it himself.
He begged me to support him!
I kicked him out.
"Get lost, you jerk!"
My dad fell ill.
The doctor informed me that after deducting the health insurance coverage, we still needed to pay over $15,000 for the surgery.
I regretted buying a new car just last month.
I called my husband, Lucas.
"Honey, can you lend me $15,000? My dad needs surgery."
"We agreed to split our expenses equally, remember? We're each responsible for our own families," Lucas replied, his tone colder than that of a casual acquaintance.
I gritted my teeth, trying to stay calm. "I said 'lend.' I'll pay you back!"
"I don't have it. Figure it out yourself." He hung up without even a word of concern.
Furious, I threw my bag onto the chair. What a piece of trash I had chosen!
"Amelia, did you manage to borrow the money?" My mom asked, having heard the commotion.
"Yes, don't worry!" I lied.
Left with no choice, I called my boss at work.
"Boss, I have about $10,000 in commissions from last quarter that haven't been paid out yet. I was wondering if I could get an advance."
"What happened?" he asked.
I explained my dad's situation.
"Alright, I'll make an exception. If you need more, I can lend you some personally."
Seeing $15,000 deposited into my account, I covered my face and cried.
What had marriage given me? Nothing but a mess.
The respect and trust I earned through my own hard work and perseverance were worth so much more.